Reddit how to find a wife. They are everywhere. You don't "find" a wife. ) I have tried dating but it only lead to hook ups and women I didnt want to be with. You don't "find" a wife, you marry one. Any advice for a young man who's looking? I'm not trying to illicit anyone through this post btw. Financially stable. Figured who would be better to ask how to find a good wife, than women. You meet someone, fall in love, or at least find you get on well with them. I've been you. (Yes, that includes marriage, if you're both so inclined. A good future wife is found on the path to become a good future husband. Volunteer at a charity you care about, even if a couple of hours a month is all you can do. The only women that want to be with me are the ones I dont want to be with. She's your best friend, your partner, your girlfriend. Anyways, what I bring to the table. . They're not just lying around, waiting to be picked-up and taken home. The question is can you attract one? Fortunately nothing happened - but that was a huge turn off for me for using Reddit for finding single males/couples. I will say that we (I) am very selective about finding the right fit - personality, ability to laugh and connect and have a fun time together. Shared values go a long way. How do people actually find their spouse/life partner? I look around at all of my friends and sisters and other family members who are married or in a LTR and sometimes get existential about how these couples actually found each other. You're framing this 20 steps ahead of where you actually are. Inherited a house, car is nearly paid off, I have a good job with benefits. Hopefully they think they'd like to be partnered to you. Everyone finds their person in their own way, at their own time. How can I ever find a relationship like this? Find yourself first, then find women in your life. I find that the women I like, do not text back, never initiate a conversation, never call, etc. Pet rescue, delivering meals to seniors, food bank, whatever you’re passionate about. tho bhkzmf ehap fnhgul aklid tmhie rsuog nqsx xpqk qyumd